Remember you are on a budget. If someone asks you to go on an expensive holiday, you should regretfully decline. There will be other opportunities to travel. Right now, you must protect your bottom line. If your current job doesn't pay well, look for another. A romantic relationship is showing signs of strain. Getting therapy for some emotional hang ups can be helpful. It's time to develop a healthier outlook about sensuality. Instead of overthinking every situation, you'll learn to do what feels good.Your partner isn't giving you the affection you deserve. Although you sympathise with their busy schedule, it's important to assert your needs. Continuing to accept neglect will create a dangerous pattern. It's possible this isn't the best time to have a relationship right now. The best way to fill your leisure time is with an art project. If you've been struggling with a creative block, just keep working. A marvellous breakthrough will occur while you do some preliminary exercises.
I Am Looking For
A really nice guy with minimum hang-ups, looks after himself and is sorted. It wouldn`t hurt if he was drop dead gorgeous, hung like a horse and built like a god, but until I meet that `one guy`* I won`t really know if he`s any of that. I have done the whole shag for the sake of a shag thing - I`d like to think I`m over it and would rather meet someone who can love and express it by making love rather than just f**king.
* I don`t believe that there is just one person out there for us - there are probably lots of guys with whom I could happily spend my life. What I mean with that `one guy` is the one guy I end up with that I am willing and happy to share the rest of my life with and who wants the same from me.
A person who has clarity in who and what he is. Not willing to compromise in himself or his standards any longer. Always learning, never all-knowing. A true friend if I choose to be a friend. Powerfully creative, quietly humble. Gentle and strong. Peaceful. Now everyone together say - ohhhmmmm....
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