Breaking a bad habit takes willpower. It helps to stay out of the path of temptation. Instead of spending time with friends who engage in problematic behaviour, go off on your own. Take this opportunity to reconnect with your spiritual side. You may be surprised to discover a love for simple pleasures. Nature walks, time with your pet and reading will become a lot more satisfying than partying. This may sound incredible now, but it won't after you change your priorities.Changing the rules of a partnership is necessary. You're unhappy with the current dynamic. Have a heart to heart talk with your best friend, romantic partner or business associate. Explain you are no longer willing to play second banana all the time. By adopting a more assertive role, your confidence will soar. You aren't meant to stay in the background. Someone with your leadership ability should have the chance to call the shots as often as possible. If your other half doesn't agree, it may be time to part ways.
I Am Looking For
A really nice guy with minimum hang-ups, looks after himself and is sorted. It wouldn`t hurt if he was drop dead gorgeous, hung like a horse and built like a god, but until I meet that `one guy`* I won`t really know if he`s any of that. I have done the whole shag for the sake of a shag thing - I`d like to think I`m over it and would rather meet someone who can love and express it by making love rather than just f**king.
* I don`t believe that there is just one person out there for us - there are probably lots of guys with whom I could happily spend my life. What I mean with that `one guy` is the one guy I end up with that I am willing and happy to share the rest of my life with and who wants the same from me.
A person who has clarity in who and what he is. Not willing to compromise in himself or his standards any longer. Always learning, never all-knowing. A true friend if I choose to be a friend. Powerfully creative, quietly humble. Gentle and strong. Peaceful. Now everyone together say - ohhhmmmm....
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