Although you've been working very hard, you have little to show for these efforts. Someone who is prejudiced against you has been blocking your path. It's time to cut your losses. Once you put your energy in another direction, you'll experience forward momentum. It will be such a relief to see progress after a long period of stagnation. Resist the temptation to bad mouth the individual who has created so many problems for you. The Universe will make sure they get their just desserts.You have to close the door on the past if you're going to move forward. Stop dwelling on an unfair decision or a cruel remark. Rain falls into everyone's life. The sooner you resign yourself to this fact, the faster the sun will emerge. Part of the problem is you are struggling with a lack of employment. Whether you have been looking for a job or are only working part time, it feels like you are damaged goods. Be willing to explore different industries and other lines of work.
I Am Looking For
A really nice guy with minimum hang-ups, looks after himself and is sorted. It wouldn`t hurt if he was drop dead gorgeous, hung like a horse and built like a god, but until I meet that `one guy`* I won`t really know if he`s any of that. I have done the whole shag for the sake of a shag thing - I`d like to think I`m over it and would rather meet someone who can love and express it by making love rather than just f**king.
* I don`t believe that there is just one person out there for us - there are probably lots of guys with whom I could happily spend my life. What I mean with that `one guy` is the one guy I end up with that I am willing and happy to share the rest of my life with and who wants the same from me.
A person who has clarity in who and what he is. Not willing to compromise in himself or his standards any longer. Always learning, never all-knowing. A true friend if I choose to be a friend. Powerfully creative, quietly humble. Gentle and strong. Peaceful. Now everyone together say - ohhhmmmm....
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